The Two Important “F” In My Life

I love being surrounded with people (super!), not just people people but good people. I love people who brings good vibes into my life. We will only live once so why not choose the right and better people who will go along the way, daba? As much as possible I try to avoid people who brings nothing but negativity to my life. That’s why I come up to this post to show you the two important “F” in my life. These are not things nor animals, these are people that I truly cherish and value the most.

So the question is.. who are the two F in my life?

It’s no other than my….

Family.

I am 1Billon % sure that they will never-ever leave me nor forsake me. Gumuho man ang mundo, pumuti man ang buhok ko, malagas man ang ngipin ko, at tumangkad man ako.. ang pamilya ko andyan pa rin sa tabi ko. Naks! But that’s true. Iwanan ka man lahat ng tao pero ang pamilya mo hinding hindi ka iiwanan nyan. Andyan lang yan para sau.. hindi lang minsan halata. 🙂

402417_2651400335716_1552260344_nAng pamilya sasabayan ka nyan sa mga kabaliwan mo pero pag sasabihan ka at itatama ka pag nagkamali kana. Agree or agree?! AGREEEEE!

The best people in the world - Family!

The best thing in the world – Family!

And of course the second important F in my life are my….

Friends!

My teenage life won’t be completed without these girls. We’re maloko and maarte(obviously!) back then but when it comes to study never naming pinabayaan yan. We were altogether until we finished high-school. Madami na din kaming pinag daanan together but still here we are, strong not to mention pretty. LOL! #AngKumontraPanget

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High-school friends

We have our own life and family now, one of our friend, Kristine is living in the other side of this planet already but our friendship still remains. Although we seldom see and talk to each other deep inside of us we know that we will always beside each other no matter what. For me they’re more than just my friends, they’re my sisters. We’ve been together for more than 1 decade, imagine? Please lang wag ninyo ng i-calculate baka mahulaan ninyo pa ang edad ko. Teehee!! They’re one of the craziest and best people in the world I know. Pinky swear!

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After graduating high-school I met these two girls naman, their name is Marla and Earleen. They’re now my kumare’s! We were only 5 girls in our class back in college because our course was Computer Engineering(they say this course is for boys only! I say…I beg to disagree!Agree ladies?) These two are my closest friends. One of the things that we enjoyed back then was going out together after our class. Gimikerang tunay ang peg namin that time and I must say that I really enjoyed being single. At mas na-enjoy ko pa ang college life ko because of them. Kahit mahirap basta sama-sama kami, kayang kaya namin ang lahat! Don’t get me wrong even though we love to hangout it was never become a hindrance to our study. For I always believe that there is always time for everything. We graduated just in time that’s why I couldn’t be any prouder than that.

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My College friends Marla and Earleen. This is the most descent photo that I saw in my baul. Sorry naman! Hehe

Now here are my husband’s college friends who became my closest friends too. When I started working and transferred here in Manila sila na yung madalas na nakakasama ko. So this time iba naman ang trip namin– road trip at food trip! These guys are so hilarious! Mababaliw ka pag nakasama mo ‘tong mga ‘to! I swear! Most especially pag naglalaglagan na sila ng kanilang mga buhay buhay nung college pa sila. Paulit ulit yan pero bentang benta pa rin samin kahit hindi ako maka-relate. HAHAHAAHA! They are Cyler’s godfather and godmother too! O diba pano na ang baby #2?! Wala ng ninong at ninang lahat na kay Cyler na! Chos! Willing naman sila maging ninong at ninang ng mga anak namin so keribels lang.

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PLM Friends

Now here’s Yhani! She’s also a mom blogger (visit her site here) and my former officemate in my first ever job. She is now my all time kumare and best friend. Maikli lang ang pinag samahan namin before pero malalim maybe because were both on the same boat and we have lots of similarities. Kung ako baliw, eto mas baliw pa sakin! Promise! Lokaret syang tunay!(Peace teh!)! I remember those day when we were together, walang araw na hindi namin pagtatawanan ang isa’t isa. Ganun kami magmahalan, we love bullying each other… everyday! Pero never naman kami nagka-pikunan (buti nalang!). I just love this girl so much, she’s very jolly kasi! Lakas makahawa ng good vibes! At ngayon she has her own family na rin. She’s also my travel buddy when I went out of the country for the very first time. Tatlo kami to be exact, me, her, and Cj. Chaperon lang ang peg nya! 😛
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Now these ladies here are my current officemates that super close to my heart. They all know my kabaliwan and they accept me for who I am. We have different attitudes but we have one thing in common and that is our “kakikayan!”. Well, I guess it’s super obvious in the photo. Some of them are still single kaya ang saya ko pag pasko andaming gift ng mga anak ko! HAHAHA! #UserFriendlyAngPeg Sila ang mga ka-chikahan ko the whole week so umayan to the max talaga ang drama namin sa office. Pero hindi naman ako naumay sakanila, di ko lang sure kung umay na sila sakin. Hahaha!

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(From L-to-R) Meet Katey, Irene, Rachelle, Anna (and me!)

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And last but never the least… my fellow mommy blogger friends! These ladies are not just my cyber friends they are what I call my sisters! I learned to appreciate motherhood more because of them. And I learned so much through their experiences too. Without these ladies baka na-praning nako sa pagiging nanay ko. Kaya super thank you mga mudrabels! You all inspired me a lot and helped me to become a better mom with my son.

After writing this post I realized that I’m truly blessed for having them in my life! Siguro my life would be so boring without them. They give more colors and bring meaning to my life! And my life is worth living because of them. That’s why I really treasure these people, mahirap na noh minsan lang ako makakakita ng mga taong katulad nila along the way so papakawalan ko pa ba diba? Hindi man ako mayaman, mayaman naman ako sa pagmamahal ng pamilya at mga kaibigan ko. And that’s something that money can’t buy.

So start thanking those people who made your life worth living! And surround yourself with people who enrich your life and get rid of those who wont. If distance is your problem then text, call, or email them tell them that you miss them and you love them kahit minsan lang. Life is too short so while you’re still alive (and they’re still alive) let your loved ones feel that they are loved and treasured. 🙂

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Wait! Meron pa pala! My amazing dear readers who supported me all the way! Mas naging worth it ang pagba-blog ko because of you! Need ko pa ba isa-isahin? Eh dalawa lang naman kayo. Chos! Super thank you talaga! Hindi naman ako naghangad na may magbasa nitong boring blog ko, grammar palang alam kong aayawan nako ng tao. All I really wanted is to document my child’s milestones and my family’s memories, but after reading all your emails, compliments, comments I realized that this blog is more than just an online diary of my family, it touches and inspires a lot of people. So thank you, thank you! 🙂

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8 thoughts on “The Two Important “F” In My Life

    • You’re most welcome, Aimee! Naku true yan, as a matter of fact I stop reading parenting magazine when I started reading blogs kasi I learned so much from all your experiences. 🙂

  1. Touched naman ako, mommy Sha. 🙂
    Thank you for the gift of friendship! Like Aimee, I also realized na mas madalas ko pa kayo makasama ngyon kesa sa mga old friends ko. Hehehe. Tagaytay na! Tara lets?!

    • Mommy Sha talaga ah? Feeling ko sobrang tanders ko na! Hahaha! Naku naman sino ba diba? Kau din madalas kasama ko na! Hahaha!

      Oo push natin yang Tagaytay na yan, somewhere in August. August 10?

  2. Hi, I stumbled on your blog while I was looking for lootbag items for a kiddie birthday party. Haha. For my pamangkin actually, as I don’t have a child yet. I love your blog! I’m getting married next year (hihi) and hopefully magka baby na rin kami agad. 🙂 Nakakatuwa basahin adventures mo with your family, your baby, etc. Dahil nainspire ako sayo, plan ko din gumawa ng blog to document our family adventures. Hehe. Hopefully I’ll bump into you again in cyberspace and maybe in real life! 🙂 Keep blogging! 🙂

    • Hi Mia! Thanks for the kind words! Na-touch naman ako sobra! It’s really heartwarming to hear people saying that they were inspired by my story.

      Congrats in advance for the new adventure that you will be facing soon– married life! Keep the love and fire alive! Please keep me posted when you start blogging na ah! And hopefully I can meet you too in person! Thanks again, Mia. 😉

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